The precise explanations of the Chanmyay method loop in my mind, making me question every movement and sensation as I struggle to stay present. The clock reads 2:04 a.m., and the ground beneath me seems unexpectedly chilled. A blanket is draped over my shoulders—not because the room is freezing, but to buffer against that specific, bone-deep stillness of the night. I feel a tension in my neck and adjust it, hearing a faint pop, and then instantly start an internal debate about whether that movement was a "failure" of awareness. That thought annoys me more than the stiffness itself.
The looping Echo of "Simple" Instructions
The technical details of the Chanmyay method repeat in my head like fragmented directions. "Note this sensation. Know that thought. Maintain clarity. Stay continuous." In theory, the words are basic, but in practice—without the presence of a guide—they become incredibly complex. In this isolation, the clarity of the teaching dissolves into a hazy echo, and my uncertainty takes over.
I notice my breath. Or I think I do. It feels shallow, uneven, like it doesn’t want to cooperate. I feel a constriction in my chest and apply a label—"tightness"—only to immediately doubt the timing and quality of that noting. That spiral is familiar. It shows up a lot when I remember how precise Chanmyay explanations are supposed to be. The demand for accuracy becomes a heavy burden when there is no teacher to offer a reality check.
Knowledge Evaporates When the Body Speaks
My thigh is aching in a steady, unyielding way. I attempt to maintain bare awareness of it. The mind keeps drifting off to phrases I’ve read before, things about direct knowing, bare awareness, not adding stories. I laugh quietly because even that laughter turns into something to watch. I ask: "Is this sound or sensation? Is the feeling pleasant?" But the experience vanishes before I can find a label.
A few hours ago, I was reading about the Dhamma and felt convinced that I understood the path. Now that I am actually sitting, my "knowledge" is useless. The body's pain is louder than the books. The knee speaks louder than the books. The mind wants reassurance that I’m doing this correctly, that this pain fits into the explanation somewhere. I don’t find it.
The Heavy Refusal to Comfort
I catch my shoulders tensing toward my ears; I release them, only for the tension to return moments later. My breathing is hitching, and I feel a surge of unprovoked anger. I note the irritation, then I note the fact that I am noting. Eventually, the act of "recognizing" feels like an exhausting chore. This is the "heavy" side of the method: it doesn't give you a hug; it just gives you a job. There is no "it's okay" click here in this tradition. There is only the instruction to see what is true, over and over.
There’s a mosquito whining somewhere near my ear. I wait. I don’t move. I wait a little longer than usual. Then I swat. I feel a rapid sequence of irritation, relief, and regret, but the experience moves faster than my ability to note it. I recognize my own lack of speed, a thought that arrives without any emotional weight.
Experience Isn't Neat
Satipatthana sounds clean when explained. Four foundations. Clear categories. Actual reality, however, is messy and refuses to stay in its boxes. I can't tell where the "knee pain" ends and the "irritation" begins. My thoughts are literally part of my stiff neck. I try to just feel without the "story," but my mind is a professional narrator and refuses to quit.
Against my better judgment, I look at the clock. Eight minutes have passed. Time passes whether I watch it or not. The ache in my thigh shifts slightly. The shift irritates me more than the ache itself. I wanted it stable. Predictable. Observationally satisfying. Instead it keeps changing like it doesn’t care what framework I’m using.
The technical thoughts eventually subside, driven out by the sheer intensity of the somatic data. Heat. Pressure. Tingling. Breath brushing past the nose. I stay with what’s loudest. I wander off into thought, return to the breath, and wander again. No grand conclusion is reached.
I don't have a better "theory" of meditation than when I started. I am suspended between the "memory" of how to practice and the "act" of actually practicing. sitting in this unfinished mess, letting it be messy, because that’s what’s happening whether I approve of it or not.